[JOTO Plate Recommendation] Move Forward at Your Own Pace—Sometimes, Slower Is Faster

For a while, I treated life like a relentless race. College, graduate school, publications—my progress often lagged half a step behind my peers. At first, anxiety crept in like fine sand, slipping through my fingers. Every day I worried about being left behind: friends getting promoted, classmates publishing, juniors already stepping into the next stage—while I was still refining the precision of a single sentence. The voice saying “you should be faster” kept pushing, as if one moment late would make the world shut its doors. But on certain long nights, I finally understood: it wasn’t the world closing in—it was me holding my breath too tightly.

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Later, I began to think of life as a marathon. At the start, some people do run faster—family background, access to resources, physical condition, and environment all create gaps. But the secret of a marathon is never about who leads in the first kilometer; it’s about who can still run in the final stretch. If I kept matching someone else’s pace, I’d only burn out in a rhythm that wasn’t mine. Everyone has their own stride and inner breathing chamber, a tempo found between inhale and exhale. When I replaced fixed milestones with sustainable steps, and changed “must” into “can be slow,” the road suddenly felt longer—and walkable.

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“Slow” isn’t laziness; it’s a long-distance skill. It taught me how to negotiate with fatigue: when stuck, pause where you are, bring your thoughts back into the body, wait until the heartbeat settles into a rhythm you can talk with—then return to the words and data. It also taught me to trust time a little more. When I stopped rushing to submit a polished version, I could revise more honestly and practice what I truly wanted to say until it stood firm. Slowing down subtly changed my relationship with the world: I wasn’t the one copying the standard answer faster; I was the one willing to ask the question more deeply. Those days that seemed late began to gain thickness; those detours quietly grew into my own voice and method.

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More importantly, going slow helped me keep my own shape. If I ran at someone else’s speed, I might reach a milestone sooner—but I might arrive with a different face. A marathon has one course; life has countless branching paths. Some people excel at straight-line acceleration; others are better at patient planning around the turns. I chose the latter: laying foundations in quiet, refining through repetition—neither rushing to be seen nor refusing visibility. I know this choice is slower, but it turns arrival into being in place, not merely getting there.

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So if you feel behind, there’s no need to press your breath into the top of your chest. Give the pacing back to yourself. Listen to the weight of your legs, the direction of the wind, what your heart truly wants to pursue. Taking it slow doesn’t deny the goal—it acknowledges that arrival requires preserving stamina and self. Taking it slow isn’t avoiding competition; it’s choosing sustainable commitment. When you move at your own pace, other people’s backs stop feeling like threats and start looking like scenery. Time stops being a whip and becomes a companion. After more turns in the road, you’ll realize: what truly carries us to the finish isn’t speed, but the ability to breathe steadily in the wind and remain ourselves.

Slow, so you can go farther.
Slow, so the one who arrives is truly you.

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