Recently, I've been pondering a question: can you only have one soulmate? No matter how you think about it in any language, "soulmate" and "one-to-one" don't necessarily have to be linked. Entering a long-term one-to-one relationship doesn’t mean that person is your soulmate. Even if you have a partner, it doesn't mean others can't also be your soulmates. Today, let’s explore this concept while browsing Joto.

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Life can't be replayed. This statement is more thought-provoking than we might imagine. Since life can’t be replayed, what does that mean? We often follow with "so make careful decisions" or "seize the moment." However, it also means we can’t know if any of our decisions are wrong.

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Because life can’t be replayed, every decision we make is neither correct nor incorrect. We can’t go back to the moment of making a decision and choose differently, living that alternative life until the present moment when we judge it.

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When there's no way to have a correct answer, saying "if I had chosen differently, my life would be..." is a mistake. If we had made different choices, we might not be who we are now, contemplating the correctness of those choices.

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What does this time machine paradox have to do with soulmates? I believe that relationships are neither "correct" nor "incorrect." A relationship is a relationship; if it happens, it happens. So, persistently seeking the "one correct soulmate" is a mistake, as it assumes both the "one" and the "correct."

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What is real, then? The present moment is real. If you feel soul-connected with someone now, that’s real. If you feel multiple people truly understand your soul, that’s real too. These experiences are real and shape who we are.


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